Andrew's Books
River Dialogues is a collection of short, quiet dialogues for leaders who are relied on by everyone else, but rarely have a place to think clearly for themselves.
A dark navy cloth-bound, gold-embossed book.
Inside, you’ll meet four presences:
- The Stag — the part of you that carries responsibility
- The Rat — the voice that keeps you alert and in control
- The Wren — the question you’ve been avoiding
- The River — where everything slows enough to see clearly
These are not ideas to learn.
They are recognitions.
Each dialogue reveals what’s already happening beneath the surface — in your decisions, your conversations, and the pressure you carry.

There are no frameworks.
No steps.
No performance to improve.
Only space.
Space to notice what’s driving you.
Space to question what you’ve assumed is true.
Space to stop carrying what was never yours to hold.
Brought to life with original illustrations by Mark Culmer, this is a book to return to — not for answers, but for clarity.
This is not a book about becoming more.
It’s about what remains when you stop trying to hold everything together.
Managing The Mist (2013)

In a world full of rapid change, we are often surrounded by uncertainty and a lack of clarity about the future. Andrew Sillitoe provides scientifically backed insights to ‘manage the mist’. With inspiring leadership stories, original frameworks, and an innovative roadmap to success, he clearly defines the critical pathway for enhancing leadership, creating high-performance teams, and developing winning mindsets.
"A brilliant collection of mind tools, scientifically fortified, easily identified with and presented with clarity.”
Pete Turner, CEO at 2B limitless
The 4 Keys (2019)

You have a plan.
Three years mapped out.
All your energy poured into work.
But while you’re hyper-focused on the next milestone, life around you begins to fracture.
Your health slips.
Your partner drifts.
Your kids feel the distance.
And eventually, even your business suffers.
The truth is simple: success at all costs costs too much.
Drawing on two decades of experience with C-suite leaders, athletes, and entrepreneurs, Andrew reveals how to:
- Restore balance without losing ambition.
- Align work, health, and relationships in a way that lasts.
- Create a 90-day rhythm to move forward with clarity.
The 4 Keys are not theory. They are practice.
And when you commit to them, everything changes.
Audible
Paperback
The Player-Coach (2023)

Leading while maintaining your hard-earned position as a top biller can be challenging.
Do you find yourself getting frustrated with the time and effort it takes to coach your team to success? Have you struggled to balance your responsibilities with hitting your personal targets? Do you wish you could get the best of both worlds by being a top biller and respected team leader at the same time?
Player Coach is here to help you get off the sidelines and back into the game. Discover the mindset and systems that will help you build a role that lets you coach and perform at the highest levels.
Learn how to:
- Align your team behind a game plan and strategy that has everyone invested in success and moving forward together with purpose
- Create a powerful team of winners and keep them engaged and accountable for performing and delivering at the highest level
- Build systems and a culture that empower you to balance the pressures of managing and hitting your personal targets while scaling your operation and strengthening your organisation